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Here are some questions we get all the time.
What if I’m not ready to talk about my own death yet?
A: That’s okay. You can start by attending an event, learning about the topic in general, or even planning for someone else (like aging parents). There’s no timeline or pressure. When you’re ready, I’m here.
What’s the difference between a funeral and a celebration of life?
A: Funerals are typically more traditional and religious, often including a viewing or burial service. Celebrations of life tend to be less formal, more personalized, and focused on honoring the person’s life rather than following religious customs. There’s no right or wrong—it’s about what feels meaningful to you and your family.
Can you help if someone just died and we haven’t planned anything?
A: Yes. I work with families in crisis all the time. You don’t need to have answers or know what you’re doing —that’s why I’m here. Reach out and we’ll take it one step at a time.
What is Swedish death cleaning and do I really need to do it?
A: Swedish death cleaning is sorting through your belongings while you’re still alive so your family doesn’t inherit boxes labeled “misc” and three storage units. Do you need to? No. Will your loved ones thank you for it? Absolutely. It’s practical kindness.
Do you work with specific religions or belief systems?
A: I work with people of all faith backgrounds—and no faith background. My job is to honor your values and wishes, whatever they are. I’m here to facilitate, not to impose any particular worldview.
Can I bring this to my workplace even if it feels awkward?
A: Yes! That’s exactly what lunch-and-learns and workshops are for. HR teams and leadership bring me in all the time because they know employees need this information but don’t know how to start the conversation. I handle the awkward part.
Do you help with the legal paperwork?
A: I guide you through advance directives and help you understand what documents you need, but I’m not a lawyer. For complex estate planning or legal questions, I’ll refer you to an attorney. My role is facilitation and coordination, not legal advice.
What if I change my mind about my wishes?
A: You absolutely can! Life changes, preferences evolve, relationships shift. We can update your plan anytime. The point isn’t to carve decisions in stone—it’s to document what you want right now so your family has a starting point instead of total guesswork
