Last Call Festival: October 10, 2026 at Eden Seminary

St. Louis Area Certified Death Doula

Compassionate End-of-Life Planning and Education

The Cost of Avoiding the Conversation

End-of-life planning often means making a hundred decisions when you have zero emotional
bandwidth, whether that’s today or thinking about tomorrow.

  • Families shut down.
  • Decisions get delayed.
  • Loved ones argue or are forced to guess.
  • Important documents are missing.
  • Wishes go unheard.
  • Feelings are hurt.

And ultimately, grief becomes much heavier than it needs to be.

When Someone Dies: A Checklist for Loved Ones

When someone you love dies, the world doesn’t stop. Paperwork appears. Decisions pile up. People ask questions you don’t yet have the energy to answer. Grief makes even simple tasks feel impossibly heavy, and it’s hard to know what truly needs attention now and what can wait. This checklist covers everything from the first 48 hours through the months ahead.

Death Doula Services: End-of-Life Planning and Support

End-of-Life Planning and Support

End-of-Life Planning and Support

But don’t make it weird.

Plan ahead. Document your end-of-life wishes now: the legal, the practical, the personal, and give your
family the gift of certainty when they’re grieving.

Celebration of Life Services

Celebration of Life Services

You grieve; I’ll coordinate.

When grief takes center stage, we take care of the details. We coordinate memorial services and celebrations of life that reflect and honor your loved one.

Speaking and Education

Speaking and Education

Hold the awkwardness.

Bring death-positive education to your workplace, senior living community, or organization with
workshops and guidance for planning ahead.

Isn’t this depressing?

No. What’s depressing is watching families scramble through decisions while grieving. Planning ahead is a gift.

Meet Lauren and her team, your end-of-life planners.

Isn't this depressing?
Isn't this depressing?
Isn't this depressing?

Whether you’re here in the middle of loss or you’re here because you want to spare someone else this weight, you’re thinking about death, and that takes courage.

When my mom passed away in 2016, I was overwhelmed by how isolating and chaotic the process felt. Families deserve more support, and that realization led to the creation of With Love.

When I’m not helping families plan or facilitating workshops, you’ll find me convincing my husband we need another plant or chasing after my littles. Life’s too short not to enjoy it, which is exactly why we should talk about death.

— Lauren

Next Steps for Support That Meets You Where You Are

Start the Conversation

Schedule a free consultation. There’s no pressure, just an opportunity to share your needs and questions.

Create a Plan

Every situation is unique. Together, we’ll discuss the services that will best support you, your family, or your community.

Receive Your Personalized Plan

You’ll get a care plan with recommended services and transparent pricing, so you can move forward with confidence.

Real experiences. Real impact.

Hear how With Love has guided families through planning, celebrations, and meaningful moments.

The workshop was so helpful! Seeing my grandmother’s plans laid out as a story, complete with visuals, was incredibly comforting for her.

— Sarah, End-of-Life Planning

Planning in advance gave me the freedom to dream big and take the burden off my loved ones. This workshop made the process approachable and even joyful.

— Mary Claire, Funeral Workshop

Lauren guided us from start to finish. Every detail was handled with care, and her support made planning from afar stress-free.

— Dixie, Celebration of Life Planning

Lauren helped me create a custom end-of-life plan that truly reflects my wishes and gives my wife peace of mind. Every detail was considered.

— Zach, Celebration of Life Pre-Planning

Lauren’s work made my mom’s celebration seamless and beautiful. We were able to honor her in a way that will be remembered forever.

— Mary, Celebration of Life Planning

Ready to Take the Weight Off Your Shoulders?

Live Presently. Die Gracefully. Plan Ahead.