About With Love

With Love is a mortality awareness business offering compassionate planning, creative experiences, and practical tools to help individuals and communities navigate the end-of-life—before, during, and after a death occurs.

We provide a full spectrum of services:
• Advance care planning (including corporate wellness partnerships)
• End-of-life doula support
• Memorial and legacy event planning
• Grief resources and remembrance tools
• Public education and custom trainings

Whether you’re planning for yourself, supporting a loved one, or building a more death-literate workplace or community, we’re here to help—with clarity, empathy, and creativity.

Based in St. Louis, Missouri, With Love supports clients locally and across the country.


Our Approach

We believe end-of-life planning is a vital part of living well. Facing death doesn’t have to be clinical or cold—it can be loving, thoughtful, and empowering. At With Love, we aim to demystify death, normalize grief, and support legacy work in all its forms.

Our offerings range from private sessions and workshops to large-scale events and corporate trainings. Whether you need an extra hand organizing a Celebration of Life, someone to walk with you during a loved one’s final chapter, or support navigating your own advance care planning—we’re here.

Interested in how we can support your family, team, or organization? Explore What We Do


Advance Healthcare Directives for Teams & Companies

One of our newest and most impactful offerings is our Advance Healthcare Directive (AHD) program, now available to businesses and organizations as part of employee wellness initiatives.

This program helps employees:

  • Understand the importance of advance directives
  • Clarify their healthcare wishes
  • Complete their documents in a supportive, stigma-free environment

By offering AHD workshops and tools, your company can foster a healthier, more prepared workforce while showing true care for your team’s full life experience.

Want to bring this to your team? Contact us to learn more about corporate packages.


About Lauren

Hi, I’m Lauren Ponder—founder of With Love, certified End-of-Life Planner, educator, event planner, and fierce advocate for death literacy.

My work began with personal grief. After my mom’s death in 2016 and feeling lost in the process, I realized how much support families truly need—emotionally, logistically, spiritually. With Love began as a way to help people through death events, but it’s evolved into something much more: a platform for planning, community, and healing.

Today, I combine my background in events, deathcare, and Human Resources to offer:
• Private support for individuals and families
• Trainings for aspiring doulas and healthcare teams
• Community education and ritual
• Corporate wellness programming
• Public events and festivals like Last Call: An End-of-Life Festival

I sit on the Volunteer Board for the non-profit Gateway End-of-Life Coalition. I also founded the St. Louis Death Positive Collective, and continue to collaborate with organizations seeking to make death, dying, and grief less taboo and more human.

Have more questions about what we are all about?

Please feel free to call us at (303) 598 – 9284 or send us an email at  lauren@withlove.events to let us know how we can be a part of your life and death events.